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How to Stop Doubting Yourself: 7 Habits for Saying YES to What You Want

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Field Notes

What happens in the seconds between "I'd love that" and "That would never work for me"? Sometimes an entire possible future gets dismissed before anyone else even hears about it.

In this episode of Postcards from the YES Life, Kim Peek shares seven habits to help catch those moments, drawing on her beach house dreams, marathon training, and some dating advice she's still debating. She explores how easily being "practical" can become a habit of saying no to something you haven't let yourself consider.

If there's an idea you keep calling silly because admitting how much you want it feels a little too revealing, this episode might leave you wondering what could happen if you gave it a chance.

Ready to give that idea some room? Join Kim for The Permission Shift, her six-week live course beginning November 11. Explore the course at The YES Life Project.

CONNECT WITH KIM:

Instagram at @kimberlylpeek for micro-adventure ideas and @TheYESLifeProject

Tag Kim and The YES Life Project in your next YES moment. She'd love to see what you're trying.

Stop Talking Yourself Out of the Life You Want. Join us for The Permission Shift, beginning 11/11/26

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Your Host:

Kimberly Peek is a writer, podcaster, endurance athlete, and creator of the YES Life Project — a philosophy devoted to helping women rebuild, reinvent, and design lives that feel expansive, meaningful, and fully their own. After navigating major life plot twists including breast cancer, loss, heartbreak, and an empty nest, Kim began asking a simple question: what would happen if she started saying YES to herself?

Some happy accidents became an intentional way of living. The YES Life isn't about blowing up your life or chasing constant adventure — it's about choosing what expands you, protecting your time and energy, and creating a life you don't feel the need to escape from. Through honest storytelling and real-world lessons, Kim invites listeners to reconnect with joy, agency, and the belief that it's never too late to design a future you're excited to wake up to.

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Key Takeaways

  • The episode explores how being “practical” can become a habit of saying no to possibilities.
  • Kim draws on her beach house dreams, marathon training, and dating advice.

Frequently Asked Questions

Who hosts the episode?

Kimberly Peek, creator of the YES Life Project.

What is The Permission Shift?

The Permission Shift is a 6-week live course with Kimberly Peek that helps you catch the old rules posing as common sense, give your imagination something better to do than rehearse rejection, and make the kind of bold ask that could have you saying, “Wait, how did this become my actual life?”

What is the Plot Twist Playbook?

A collection of 25+ guided audio sessions for navigating a life transition and creating a next chapter.